As of today, I have been bothered about the stories that have been told about harassment. Each of us in this world has a different story and a view about harassment and this is about mine.

Harassment can happen everywhere, sometimes in the streets, maybe in a workplace, in the academe, or at home. There are also different types of harassment like catcalling, pulling sexually motivated jokes, sexual harassment in a workplace and so on and so forth. The main thing is, as long as it violates a persons feelings, offending a person through verbal or non-verbal acts with or without sexual inuendo, I want to call it harassment already.

In the streets, whenever I walk my way to school, drivers of tri-wheeled vehicle called “pedicab” would call on to me to ride their cab but with additional words like “beh” which is an endearment, or even yell “sexy ka man” translated as “you are sexy”. I opt to walk fast just to avoid hearing them speak such words. As girl, I find it demeaning and degrading to be spoken to that kind of level. I cannot fathom how such men who are fathers themselves, brothers, boyfriends, uncles, or even grandparents would allow themselves to harass a woman on the street.

Sometimes, I am proud of myself for not stooping so low on their level and just ignore their words. Sometimes, I even want to stop, turn my back and ask them what exactly is their point in calling me names, yelling at me, or even whistling at me like I am some kind of an animal that would pay attention to them. It is awful.

I am not asking for such kind of treatment. I deserve to be respected. I am a woman. The way I dress, the way I walk and the way I carry myself is not anyone’s business. Everyone deserves respect from all the people. Apparently, not everyone has been taught about respect.

I am wondering how these people would react if they see their daughters, wives, sisters, aunts or even mothers subjected to such predicament. Would they even learn?

My dad has taught us to respect people even if for me they ought not to be respected at all because of their acts towards me or some other thing that I dont like about them but in my life, I have never seen or hear stories about my brother direspecting a woman. We may fight at times but never have he disrespected me in a way to offend my being a woman. I cannot even imagine him doing such acts of harassment to any person.

I guess that these harassing acts can be done by anyone. Different factors can contribute as to why a person does these acts.

        1. A person’s peers can influence the way he or she acts. And as the saying goes, “birds of the same feather flock together”.
         2. Lack of proper knowledge and instruction whether in school or at home.
              In our lives, the first place where we are to be taught is home. Before we go and attend primary school, we are first taught by our parents. Our parents teach us the basic values. They are the ones who mold us to be good people. Without their instruction, we will not be who we are today. They are the one who has a great influence in our lives. What they do we may pr may not imitate in the future. What the father does to the mother or vice versa, positive or negative, affects the well-being of a person.
              At school, we interact more with people our age. The children engage in play and learning with the second parents called teachers. Our teachers can influence us also for the way we treat other people. If a classmate is being sexually harassed through sexual messages coated with a joke, if not addressed to properly by proper authorities, a child may think it is okay to act in such a way.
        3. Social media.
               Social media can affect how a person perceives things. Social media is now a contributing factor to the well-being of a person. It may affect him positively or negatively. Sexually explicit contents on the internet can cause a person to sexually harass another. What a person sees on social media, he may do it with the thinking that it is okay.

There are many factors to be mentioned and I cannot discuss them all here but I want my readers to know that it is not okay to allow yourself to be subjected to any form of harassment. Be it outside your house or not, speak up. Tell your friends, parents, siblings, everyone you encounter because this is not something that should be allowed to live. Harassment should stop. Do not allow yourself to be destroyed and disrespected. The struggle against harassment is real. Man or woman, adult or child-harassment does not choose a victim. It does not even choose a place.

Thanks for reading.

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Have you ever thought about almost reaching your goals and suddenly you fell short on a certain point? I am currently comparing my life with the game Minesweeper.  They are the same in some ways.

I did my best to find all 37 mines. I did everything in my life to seem to be perfect and trying my best to beat the previous me. The non-achiever me. But I cannot have it all. I am also imperfect. Even games made by humans also has its imperfections. Can you see that the mine with an ‘x’ and the one beside it? They can be interchanged and i can’t see why my mine (x) was incorrect. It would not have changed anything.

I failed the game because I was not careful enough to press the flag button. The button beside the timer, if you click that, it changes into a flag then when you press the grid, flags would appear instead of popping mines. One negligent act can cause your entire life. It can change a thing or even cause a domino effect in your life. Then suddenly you just realize it is already over. Then you decide whether you start anew or get stuck at your lowest. You do a new game or stop playing.

My point is, after the game you move on and pat yourself and stick it in your memory that not everyone gets past 10 mines. Always look at the bright side of life. Think positive. Be the optimistic self that you are. And there you go, you move on. Start a clean slate and play the game again.

My minesweeper life is still improving. After a few years I want to achieve a winning game. And for me to achieve it, I will do everything I can right now to win life. I’ll make good decisions, and if I am unsure, I’ll keep on thinking, weighing, and reflecting.

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My Only Escape.

Ola amiga! It’s been a while since I have last posted since I was so busy with my life! Ha ha! I just sneaked from study because I wanted to share my three-day adventure in Palompon, Leyte where Kalanggaman Island is located.

Point of meet up with my friends was in Tacloban City, the capital of the Province of Leyte. We left Tacloban by van at around 5am and arrived at Palompon at around 8am.

For those planning to visit the island, these are the advice I want to give all of you:

1. Pumpboat transfers at PhP3000.00 for 15 passengers.

2. Bring your own drinking water.

3. Sunblock is a must. No one wants to burn, pitch black.

4. Hoodies for the very cold night.

5. Buy fresh fishes from the mainland if you want to cook your own food; otherwise, bring canned goods.

6. Try waking up before sunrise. It is an amazing view!


Tranquil Kalanggaman island undisturbed by pollution.
Tranquil Kalanggaman island undisturbed by pollution.
The sea in its calmest most soothing view.
The sea in its calmest most soothing view.
Ahh! Perfect shade in paradise!
Ahh! Perfect shade in paradise!
Arrival at Kalanggaman Island.
Arrival at Kalanggaman Island.
Something blue from nature.
Something blue from nature.
Someone is enjoying the sea! :)
Someone is enjoying the sea! 🙂

Until we meet again, vacation! :*


G.R. No. 171182               August 23, 2012


  • On August 30, 1990, the UP, through its then President Jose V. Abueva, entered into a General Construction Agreement with respondent Stern Builders Corporation (Stern Builders), represented by its President and General Manager Servillano dela Cruz, for the construction of the extension building and the renovation of the College of Arts and Sciences Building in the campus of the University of the Philippines in Los Baños (UPLB).
  • Stern Builders submitted three (3) progress billings for the work accomplished but the University of the Philippines (the UP) failed to pay the third billing (P273,729.47) because of the disallowance of the Commission on Audit (COA). After the lift of the disallowance by COA, the UP still failed to pay the third billing.
  • A civil case was filed with the RTC of Quezon City, and such case was decided in favor of Stern Builders. The UP filed a Motion for Reconsideration but was denied by the RTC.
  • The UP filed a notice of appeal but the Stern Builders opposed such appeal on the ground that the appeal was filed belatedly. The RTC denied the notice of appeal of the UP and granted the Motion for Execution filed by the Stern Builders.
  • The Writ of Execution and Notice of Demand was served by the Sherriff. The UP then filed an urgent Motion to Reconsider the Notice of Appeal with the RTC but was also denied.
  • On June 24, 2003, the UP assailed the denial of due course to its appeal through a petition for certiorari in the Court of Appeals (CA), but was then dismissed upon finding that the UP’s notice of appeal had been filed late.
  • In the meanwhile that the UP was exhausting the available remedies to overturn the denial of due course to the appeal and the issuance of the writ of execution, Stern Builders and dela Cruz filed in the RTC their motions for execution despite their previous motion having already been granted and despite the writ of execution having already issued.
  • The sheriff served notices of garnishment on the UP’s depository banks, namely: Land Bank of the Philippines (Buendia Branch) and the Development Bank of the Philippines (DBP), Commonwealth Branch. RTC released the garnished funds.
  • The UP filed with the CA Petition for Certiorari to challenge the jurisdiction of the RTC for the release of garnished funds and averred that such cannot be done because the funds involved are public funds.
  • On appeal, both the CA and the High Court denied UP’s petition. The denial became final and executory. Hence, Stern Builders filed in the RTC their motions for execution despite their previous motion having already been granted and despite the writ of execution having already issued. On June 11, 2003, the RTC granted another motion for execution filed on May 9, 2003 (although the RTC had already issued the writ of execution on October 4, 2002). Consequently, the sheriff served notices of garnishment to the UP’s depositary banks and the RTC ordered the release of the funds.
  • Aggrieved, UP elevated the matter to the CA but the CA sustained the RTC. Hence, this petition.


  1. Whether or not UP funds should be subjected to garnishment?

No, UP funds should not be subjected to garnishment. UP has been created through Act 1870 for provide advanced instruction in literature, philosophy, the sciences, and arts, and to give professional and technical training to deserving students. UP is a chartered institution performing a legitimate government function.

As a government instrumentality, the UP administers special funds sourced from the fees and income enumerated under Act No. 1870 and Section 1 of Executive Order No. 714, and from the yearly appropriations, to achieve the purposes laid down by Act 1870.

All the funds going into the possession of the UP, including any interest accruing from the deposit of such funds in any banking institution, constitute a “special trust fund[1],” the disbursement of which should always be aligned with the UP’s mission and purpose, and should always be subject to auditing by the COA.

The adverse judgment rendered against the UP in a suit to which it had impliedly consented was not immediately enforceable by execution against the UP, because suability of the State did not necessarily mean its liability.

Disbursements of public funds must be covered by the corresponding appropriation as required by law. The functions and public services rendered by the State cannot be allowed to be paralyzed or disrupted by the diversion of public funds from their legitimate and specific objects, as appropriated by law.

An appropriation by Congress was required before the judgment that rendered the UP liable for moral and actual damages (including attorney’s fees) would be satisfied considering that such monetary liabilities were not covered by the “appropriations earmarked for the said project.” The Constitution strictly mandated that “no money shall be paid out of the Treasury except in pursuance of an appropriation made by law.”

  1. Whether or not COA must adjudicate private respondents’ claim before execution should proceed?

The execution of the monetary judgment against the UP was within the primary jurisdiction of the COA. This was expressly provided in Section 26 of Presidential Decree No. 1445, “The authority and powers ofthe Commission shall extend to and comprehend all matters relating to … the examination, audit, and settlement of all debts and claims of any sort due from or owing to the Government or any of its subdivisions, agencies and instrumentalities. The said jurisdiction extends to all government-owned or controlled corporations, including their subsidiaries, and other self-governing boards, commissions, or agencies of the Government, and as herein prescribed, including nongovernmental entities subsidized by the government, those funded by donations through the government, those required to pay levies or government share, and those for which the government has put up a counterpart fund or those partly funded by the government.”

The settlement of the monetary claim was still subject to the primary jurisdiction of the COA despite the final decision of the RTC having already validated the claim.

The RTC had no authority to direct the immediate withdrawal of any portion of the garnished funds from the depository banks of the UP. By eschewing utmost caution, prudence and judiciousness in dealing with the execution and garnishment, and by authorizing the withdrawal of the garnished funds of the UP, the RTC acted beyond its jurisdiction, and all its orders and issuances thereon were void and of no legal effect.

Moreover, it is settled jurisprudence that upon determination of State liability, the prosecution, enforcement or satisfaction thereof must still be pursued in accordance with the rules and procedures laid down in P.D. No. 1445, otherwise known as the Government Auditing Code of the Philippines. “All money claims against the Government must first be filed with the Commission on Audit which must act upon it within sixty days. Rejection of the claim will authorize the claimant to elevate the matter to the Supreme Court on certiorari and in effect, sue the State thereby.”

How to determine whether the public property is subject for execution:

A). Properties held for public uses – and generally everything held for governmental purposes – are not subject to levy and sale under execution against such corporation. The same rule applies to funds in the hands of a public officer and taxes due to a municipal corporation.

B). Where a municipal corporation owns in its proprietary capacity, as distinguished from its public or government capacity, property not used or used for a public purpose but for quasi-private purposes, it is the general rule that such property may be seized and sold under execution against the corporation.

C). Property held for public purposes is not subject to execution merely because it is temporarily used for private purposes. If the public use is wholly abandoned, such property becomes subject to execution.

  1. Whether or not Period of appeal did not start without effective service of decision upon counsel of record; Fresh-period rule announced in Neypes v. Court of Appeals can be given retroactive application?

Yes. The Fresh Period Rule can be given retroactive application. Public policy dictates that once a judgment becomes final, executory and unappealable, the prevailing party should not be deprived of the fruits of victory by some subterfuge devised by the losing party.

Exceptions to the doctrine of immutability of a final judgment:

  • the correction of clerical errors;
  • the so-called nunc pro tunc entries that cause no prejudice to any party; (c) void judgments; and
  • whenever circumstances transpire after the finality of the decision that render its execution unjust and inequitable

The service of the denial of the motion for reconsideration upon Atty. Nolasco was defective considering that its counsel of record was not Atty. Nolasco of the UPLB Legal Office but the OLS in Diliman, Quezon City; and that the period of appeal should be reckoned from May 31, 2002, the date when the OLS received the order. The filing of the notice of appeal on June 3, 2002 was well within the reglementary period to appeal.

“If any party has appeared by counsel, service upon him shall be made upon his counsel or one of them, unless service upon the party himself is ordered by the court. Where one counsel appears for several parties, he shall only be entitled to one copy of any paper served upon him by the opposite side.”(Section 2, Rule 13, 1997 Rules of Court)

“To standardize the appeal periods provided in the Rules and to afford litigants fair opportunity to appeal their cases, the Court deems it practical to allow a fresh period of 15 days within which to file the notice of appeal in the Regional Trial Court, counted from receipt of the order dismissing a motion for a new trial or motion for reconsideration.” (Neypes vs CA)

  1. Whether or not Awards of monetary damages, being devoid of factual and legal bases, did not attain finality and should be deleted?

The term findings of fact that must be found in the body of the decision refers to statements of fact, not to conclusions of law. The Constitution and the Rules of Court require not only that a decision should state the ultimate facts but also that it should specify the supporting evidentiary facts, for they are what are called the findings of fact.

The actual damages sought by the Stern Builders were not duly proved. Without the clear and distinct findings of fact and law, the award amounted only to an ipse dixit on the part of the RTC, and did not attain finality.

The moral damages constituted another judicial ipse dixit, the inevitable consequence of which was to render the award of moral damages incapable of attaining finality. As a juridical entity, a corporation is incapable of experiencing pain and suffering from emotional distress.


[1] “Trust fund”- fund that officially comes in the possession of an agency of the government or of a public officer as trustee, agent or administrator, or that is received for the fulfillment of some obligation. A trust fund may be utilized only for the “specific purpose for which the trust was created or the funds received.”



Snow is falling on the other side of the world and here I am in a tropical country experiencing a blizzard of feelings, feeling so sad about the coldness of the environment. 

Mr. Sun, stay with me as I journey into a renewed life. Take away the coldness and make me feel your warmth again. 

It is a new life I suppose. 


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